I really wish I would have seen these before I moved out. . . What if they still live with their parents? Then how does that change things?
I’m not sure. I never tried having a relationship with someone who still lived with their parents. My advice is based on my own experiences and observations.
I would say the best way to enter a relationship is to take it slowly. Keep finances separate and don’t even think about having kids until you’ve been together a few years, because by then you should have some idea of how likely it is to last. Also, men are more likely to do the breaking up early on, women are more likely to break up after some years. But every person is different, so it’s impossible to come up with a plan that guarantees relational success for all couples.
You just gotta do the best you can, hopefully things will work out, but if they don’t, don’t blame, just learn whatever you can from it and move on.