A while ago when I was dating my Vietnamese lady we often went out for group meals. Several of the other Asian ladies were quite attractive. One was simply stunning. I recall greeting her one time when she had a very revealing dress. I whispered “Your boobs are amazing” and turned away before she could react. I purposely arranged to sit away from her on another table and with my back to her otherwise I would have been caught staring. My date was real cute too so it wasn’t too hard ….*cough* …. well …….
“But people will think I’m gay if I don’t…”
To be fair, they are clearly on display…it would be rude NOT to notice them…
“Do or do not, there is no try” – Yoda on the finer points of using your peripherals to check out cleav
I have to ask, why is it rude to stare at someone’s tits, if they deliberately set them out like that to be stared at?
The answer: It isn’t. Just some idiot people call it rude.
What’s rude is arbitrary. There’s no logic to it, therefore different people have different standards for rudeness. You may feel it’s rude for a woman to bare part of her body and expect you not to stare, she may feel it’s rude for you to require her to dress a certain way in order to give her some common decency of not staring. I am being fair when I say it’s not her nor you in particular: You’re both equally stupid.
…to which I should probably add that it’s not personal, not directed at you. We’re all stupid about pretty much anything we ever take offense over.
Whenever we think someone’s an idiot (and let’s be honest, don’t most of us think this many times a day?) we’re being stupid. And yes, ironically, the previous sentence is also stupid, as is this one.
Staring in general is considered rude/impolite. However, the odd glance is only natural and probably the intention of the fashion choice.
Reminds me of this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlZtV3H2Gvg